Reaching Out from a Mind as Dirty as All Outdoors
If you get lucky enough, I might post adult-only material from time to time, so be 18 or over, or please be elsewhere.
I'll be discussing erotica here, the writing of it and the people who write it, as well as what we've written. I find all these aspects stimulating, but if any of them bore you, feel free to skim. You never know what you might miss, though.
Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Wild Girls, Wild Nights Day 2: Blog Tour and Free Book Drawing
Welcome to Day 2 of the Wild Girls, Wild Nights: True Lesbian Sex Stories Blog Tour!
We’ll be featuring one story a day from the book through June 22, and anyone who comments on any of the posts will be entered in a drawing for one of three free copies of the anthology. You can comment on more than one post and be entered more than once. I'll announce the winners by June 25, if not sooner, and ask for mailing info.
Most of these entries will be commentary by the writers themselves, but a few will be reviews by other writers.
Today we have Destiny Moon’s commentary on her story, “Corrupting the Innocent Pornographer.”
Let’s talk about the opposite of erotica: bed death. It happens almost automatically as sleepovers increase and we fall into our routines. It’s comforting to watch movies together and cuddle and stay up just a little past bedtime. One time she doesn’t instigate. Another time, you don’t. Next thing you know, you’ve been spooning for a month with not a single mention of the old “forking” days. Har har.
Throw in a little work stress, family drama, or traumatic life event and it becomes even easier to neglect the initial spark. This is a common experience in my circle of friends and I’m glad we talk openly about it. Among other things, we remind each other to purchase Cleis anthologies, new sex toys and massage bars.
I have a friend who has managed to keep her poly triad going – emotionally as well as sexually – for over a dozen years with one lover and nearly half a dozen with the other. Her secret? Conscious effort. She makes time to talk with her lovers and explore new sexual fantasies. They have check-ins about their relationship and don’t take sex for granted. Naturally, there are ups and downs and sometimes she calls me and complains that in spite of having two lovers, she’s not getting as much action as she’d like.
The story I wrote for Wild Girls, Wild Nights is inspired by conscious loving. When my lover and I first started dating, we were determined to be more consciously physical. We’re older and aware of our needs – as one becomes later in life.
I can’t wait to read the hot and steamy true stories in this collection. I’m looking forward to more inspiration and I hope that you find the same between the pages of Wild Girls, Wild Nights. Life is short. Have great sex.
Destiny Moon is a shy and bookish femme who, when she isn't wooing sexy butches, spends a lot of time nerding out in her apartment. She would like to dedicate her story to the pornographer, the source of her inspiration. Visit Destiny's blog at http://eroticauthoress.blogspot.ca/.
[Now to repeat the list of links for all the blog posts. You’re going to get mighty tired of seeing this.]
June 3 Angel Propps: The Daddy I Didn’t Know I Needed
June 4 Destiny Moon: The Corruption of the Innocent Pornographer
June 5 Danielle Mignon: Are You My Mommy?
June 6 Charlotte Dare: Higher Learning
June 7 Dawn Mueller: Cockadoodledoo
June 8 Lynette Mae: Risking It All
June 9 Cheyenne Blue: Nurse Joan
June 10 Catherine Paulssen: Delinquents
June 11 M. Marie: Auto-Complete
June 12 Giselle Renarde: Ring of Roses
June 13 Mia Savage: Kat’s House
June 14 Dawn McKay: Hot Desert Nights
June 15 Allison Moon: Foxy and the Ridiculous Lesbian Orgy
June 16 Allison Wonderland: Guise and Dolls
June 17 Anna Watson: Tamago
June 18 Evan Mora: Insatiable Travel Itch
June 19 Catherine Henreid: Odds
June 20 H.M. Husley: Threesome
June 21 Jasmine Grimstead: Lost Batteries
June 22 Monica E. Moreno: Polvo de Hadas